Is Girl Boss Culture Dead?

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👩🏻‍💻 Is Girl Boss Culture Dead? Or Was It Never Really In?

✨ How I'm Getting My Life & Finances in Order for 2025

👩🏻‍💻 Is Girl Boss Culture Dead? Or Was It Never Really In?

When I look back on my journey, I find myself asking—why did I see being a “girl boss” as my only survival option? Was it because I grew up watching my parents build businesses, or because it felt like the only way to escape my circumstances?

Let me be clear: I’m not here to bash the girl boss mentality. For a long time, it was everything to me. It gave me a sense of purpose and independence when I needed them most. I wore the label proudly—so much so that I often judged women who chose different paths. In my mind, success was synonymous with being 100% self-sufficient. Anything else? Weakness.

Over time, though, that belief started to shift. I began to view any alternative—especially relying on a partner—as “less than.” That perspective was rooted in my own trauma, shaped by a fear that depending on someone else was not only risky but downright foolish. The “girl boss” narrative didn’t just resonate with me; it reinforced this mindset.

But what ever happened to her, anyway? The girl boss who could do it all?

For me, embracing independence became an overcorrection. I leaned so far into my masculine energy that it spilled into every aspect of my life, including my personal relationships. The boundaries blurred between who I was at work and who I was outside of it. I pushed away good relationships, not because the men were “intimidated by my success,” but because my energy was too imbalanced.

Which brings me to another topic worth exploring: Are men really scared of independent women?

In my opinion, men—true men, not boys—aren’t afraid of independent women. What they struggle with is women who embody so much masculinity that it overshadows the natural balance a relationship craves. Independence is empowering, but when it tips too far into masculine energy, it can make the dynamics feel off.

What are your thoughts? Can independence coexist with femininity in a way that feels natural and harmonious? And is the “girl boss” ideal evolving into something more balanced—or was it never meant to last?

As I’ve been reflecting on what independence and balance look like for me, I’ve also started taking action to create more harmony in my life—starting with getting organized for the year ahead.

✨ End-of-Year Review: How I'm Getting My Life & Finances in Order for 2025

As we close out the year, I’m taking the time to reassess and organize—digitally and physically. It’s not just about decluttering, but about setting myself up for success and reducing unnecessary distractions. Here’s how I’m tackling it:

1. Email Overhaul

• Switching to a New Email Address: I’m fed up with the spam, so I’m slowly transitioning to a new email. I’ve been using the Clean Email App to quickly unsubscribe from mass emails and declutter my inbox.

• Spam Blocker on My Phone: After years of dealing with robocalls and spam texts, I’m now using RoboKiller. Also Apple has a few features to turn on for free.

2. Expense & Financial Review

• Renegotiating Services: I’m reviewing everything from my internet plan to cell phone bill and insurance. I’m finding that a quick call or email can often lead to a discount, especially if you’ve been loyal to a provider for a while.

• New Credit Card Numbers: A pain, but it’s worth it. I’m changing my credit card info to stop any surprise recurring charges I forgot about. It’s a hassle, but it clears up those hidden subscriptions.

• Resale Gear & Gadgets: I’m trading in my old Apple gear for credit at the Apple store (great way to get a discount on upgrades). Also, reselling old bags and jewelry to Rebag or my local consignment shop. Rebag’s instant quote tool is a game-changer for a quick sale.

3. Subscription Cleanup

• Canceling Unused Subscriptions: I’ve got a list of apps and services I no longer use or need. This year, I’m serious about trimming the fat—especially with streaming platforms and subscriptions I haven’t touched in months.

4. Decluttering & Donations

• Closet Clean-Out: I’m taking it a step further this year and going through every room—not just my closet. Anything I haven’t used in the last 6 months is going into the donation pile.

• Home Inventory: As I continue unpacking, I’m documenting valuables, taking photos, and insuring them.

• Croissant Chrome Extension: I just installed this to help me quickly identify and resell items I’ve bought in the past. It tracks my purchase history in Gmail and suggests resale prices, which is perfect for getting rid of things I no longer need. I never thought I’d be able to easily resell stuff like this.

5. Digital & Tech Maintenance

• Organize Photos: I am saving down my photos to a drive stick and also keeping them uploaded to the cloud, I have used apps in the past to help here as well at least to remove double images!

• Password Overhaul: Finally taking the time to update and secure my online accounts. I’m using LastPass to store passwords and two-factor authentication wherever possible to improve security.

• Desktop & Cloud Cleanup: My desktop was a disaster, so I’m clearing files and making sure everything is backed up to iCloud or Google Drive.

• Digitizing Important Documents: I’ve got a pile of important papers—tax docs, warranties, receipts, etc. I’m using Notes App to digitize and store them securely in the cloud.

6. Wellness Check

• Privo Scan: After discovering cysts in my ovaries and breasts, I’ve committed to getting scanned annually. Early detection has been life-changing for both my health and my peace of mind.

• Mental Health Check-In: Therapy has never been my favorite thing, but it’s important. Now that I’ve moved, it’s time to search for a new therapist or at least focus on practices that make me feel good—whether that’s prioritizing sleep, journaling, or finding new hobbies.

As we head into 2025, how are you resetting and creating space for what truly matters? Let’s start fresh together.

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